Open up

It’s so annoying and painful! Why should he have done that to me ? Oh! She stepped on my toes and even ridiculed me in public.

Oh! Mine is beyond what I can tell. It has eaten deep into me. You see, you can’t relate.

Time and time again offences will surely come. With what wisdom will you be able to handle them? 

We all have been offended in different ways and sometimes it drills a hole in our heart. The palms of our heart has held so many loads making us slaves to burdens. Most times we choose to mess up every new and wonderful day with the pains of yesterday. 

Dear teenager it may be true no one can relate how painful the deed was. To be sincere with you. It is easily said than done when one tell you to forgive.

It is true that sometimes others can’t relate to certain pains we have felt from disappointments, heartbreaks and betrayals . Sometimes it happens beyond our imaginations. On our own we can't handle it. 

Hebrews  4:15  For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.

It's Jesus who can really help you out in this. 

If I may ask can you relate to the pains felt by a creator from a creature? Little was it compared to the pains He felt on the cross  that He said “Father why hast thou forsaken me”.

Dear , He still loves you and had let it go before He was offended. Meaning that before we offended Him He had forgiven us. He still loves you and can give you the way out. Open up and tell him how it hurts. He is waiting with arms opened wide. No one may be able to relate but Jesus can. Oya na, let it go.

Ola